Frog Legs

Cora received this adorable outfit from a good friend. I just had to get a few pictures!

I tried to get a picture of her awake… but she sleeps a lot. Although in this picture she seems to be thinking awfully hard about something.

Also do you see her little part in her hair? I just noticed it the other day.

Aren’t the feet too cute?

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Keep the Kids Busy without Television

So what are you going to do if you once you turn off the television?

First enter to win the Subway P.E.P. kit. 🙂

Go outside. There are so many things to do outside with your kids, sidewalk chalk, play catch, ride bikes, scooters, roller blade, walk, hike, explore, go to the park, look for bugs, sandbox, water table, sprinkler…

If the weather is still crummy there are many inside activities to replace television. Play a game, read a book, get out the puzzles, build with blocks or legos, play dolls. Have an indoor picnic, or tea party.

Crafts are also fun. Take a risk and get out the play dough. Even better make your own play dough. Stickers, colored pencils, construction paper and scissors (if they are old enough) can keep kids busy for hours. You can even use old shoe boxes to create miniature scenes from their favorite book.

One way I am able to fit in blogging, paying bills, writing emails, and other household admin tasks is to work along side my kids. Last year I wrote about some of our favorite table top toys that help keep my little children busy while I work.

I realize that many moms use the television to babysit their children while they do important things like take a shower or make dinner. I’ve been there, done that. Sometimes, especially with active little ones, television seems to be the only thing to keep them mesmerized while you get something done. I would encourage you to involve your kids, even the little ones, in your meal prep. They can help set the table, mix food together, and do other small jobs. Something I would do with one particularly active child was to fill up the kitchen sink with water and bubbles and let him play with a few of his toys in the water while I made dinner. He made a mess, but it was easy to clean up and he stayed occupied and in my line of sight.

As for getting that ever elusive shower, from the time my children were very little we encouraged room or crib time. We would put the kids in their room or cribs with a few safe toys and then leave them alone. We even put on “room time” music. This let our children know it wasn’t nap time, just time for them to stay in their rooms and play by themselves. When they got a bit older we would sometimes put on an audio book for them to listen to while they played in their room. The key to this technique is to make sure the rooms are kid friendly. If there are things your child could get hurt on in their room this is not a good idea. I found that if we started this when they were young (a few months old) by the time they were three or four years old they really enjoyed their room time. Usually we have special toys that only come out during room time as well.

We did put up a safety gate to keep a few children in their rooms during room time. This was more for their protection and to keep them from running around the house, or possibly outside while I was in the shower and couldn’t hear what was going on.

Turning off the television definitely takes extra effort on the part of the parent. It means getting organized and planning activities to keep your kids busy throughout the day. As with everything in life the best things are usually the hardest things. It might be hard to limit the television at first, but you will definitely reap the rewards.

Check back tomorrow for some ideas on what you can do with your no TV time, plus a giveaway!

 

Kill Your Television and Join the P.E.P. Rally

This contest is now closed and we have a winner!

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Congratulations Heather R. check your email for more information!

As you all know this is National TV Turn-Off Week. Subway along with the National Institute of Health has teamed up to create P.E.P. kits (Play more, Eat right, Push away the screen). Each kit is filled with fun activities to get your kids moving.

My kids were super excited when their kit arrived today. Unfortunately our weather isn’t cooperating with fun outside play.

My kids played with a few of the toys inside for a while and then decided to brave the weather and head outside regardless of the rainy 50 degree day. (Translation: the inside play became too loud and wild so I sent them outside…)

There are so many alternatives to watching television and I have to admit I am proud of Subway for jumping on the healthy bandwagon. There is so much garbage marketed to kids these days it is refreshing to see a company do something a little different.

Since you know that I am not a TV gal, and would love to help my readers kick the television habit (well, more so for their kids) I want to send one of these P.E.P. kits to you!

The kit I am giving away includes a bug net, water balloons, sidewalk chalk, a bucket and shovel, Frisbee, bubbles, jump rope, kite, flower seeds and a $10 Subway gift card. (Just promise me you will order one of the healthy subs, okay)

To enter to win a P.E.P. kit leave a comment. For a second entry tweet about this contest and make sure you include the hashtag #screentime. Leave me a second comment letting me know you tweeted about the giveaway. I will chose a random winner Friday evening (Cora will once again dictate the ending time).

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TV Turnoff Week

Did you know April 20-26th is TV Turnoff Week? In our house we celebrate TV turnoff 365 days a year, but for many families this week is an opportunity to shut off the television and do something other than watch the screen.

Some fast television facts:

  • Number of 30-second commercials seen in a year by an average child: 20,000
  • Number of minutes per week that parents spend in meaningful conversation with their children: 38.5
  • Number of minutes per week that the average child watches television: 1,680
  • Percentage of children ages 6-17 who have TV’s in their bedrooms: 50
  • Percentage of day care centers that use TV during a typical day: 70
  • Hours per year the average American youth spends in school: 900 hours
  • Hours per year the average American youth watches television: 1500
  • Percentage of Americans that regularly watch television while eating dinner: 66

source: turnoffyourtv.com

When we decided to stop watching television several years ago it was an easy choice. We didn’t like the fact that our kids were being bombarded by commercials promoting sugary cereals, fast food, or cheapo made in China toys. We also didn’t like that fact that even if we were watching a “good” show inevitably a preview for an upcoming show (one that we would never allow our children to watch) could be seen during the commercial breaks. Not to mention it became harder and harder to find “good” shows. We decided to make our job as parents much easier and just quit watching television altogether.

To be honest, we still own a television. It is a twenty year old 19 inch dinosaur that serves us well for the occasional movie or educational video. We still enjoy family movie night once in a while and when our kids are sick sometimes they watch movies to pass the time.

Usually we are so busy we don’t have time for television. When the weather is nice I would much rather be outside (and let my very active boys run off their energy) than sit in front of the television. On dreary days I prefer books, games, crafts, and audio books. These types of activities encourage creativity and force my kids to interact with each other. It is easy to get along when everyone is looking in the same direction (at the television). It is much harder to get along when you are constantly interacting and being forced to share, cooperate, and talk. I want my children to be able to get along and play together, not be able to watch a movie together, that is easy.

So what is your opinion on television, love it, hate it, own it, live without it? Movies, cable, commercials? Are you willing to shut off your television for one week? Feel free to leave your opinion in the comment section, just keep it friendly and non-judgmental. What works for your family might not work for another.

Don’t know what to do without the television? Enter to win a P.E.P. kit filled with fun activities for your kids!

I can’t wait to hear what you think!

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Cora and Kit ~ Sixteen Days Old

Time for another Cora and Kit photo. I can’t believe how much Cora has grown in the past week. She is also spending more time awake. Today she tried to grab Kit’s hair. Well – maybe she wasn’t trying to actually grab her hair, but she was reaching for something….

Cora and Kit ~ April 18, 2009 ~ Sixteen Days Old

Cora and Kit ~ Nine Days (last week’s photo)

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You Can Reach Me By Email

My husband told me the other day I was a hard person to get a hold of… really? I thought we lived in the same house. I told him to send me an email… and make the title catchy so I would read it.

This appeared in my inbox this morning…

Subject: YOU”VE CHANGED MY LIFE!! I LOVE YOUR BLOG!! KEEP WRITING!! ISN”T YOUR HUSBAND A CUTIE?

Now that I have your attention…

I’d like the take the top six here after church – I promise to get
pictures…What do you think,  can you handle the break?

http://www.aparentinsilverspring.com/2009/04/national-wildlife-visitor-center-in.html

I love you.

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Smart guy, huh… not only does he use flattery, he also offers to take pictures of the proposed event…. a man after a blogger’s heart. <3

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Trip to Quiet Waters Park

We decided to take advantage of the beautiful weather and visit one of our local parks. Today we visited  Quiet Waters Park, in Annapolis, Maryland. This park is beautiful with miles of biking/ jogging trails, lots of open fields, a few small playgrounds, one large playground, as well as boat rentals in the summer and a museum.

There is a fee to enter the park in a car, but admission is free for military and dependents.

Here are a few pictures of our afternoon.

Sculpture Gardens

Isn’t it funny how you can take a kid to a park and all they want to do is run up and down the stairs?

A small pond with ducks and turtles, I wonder if you are allowed to feed them?

Winding roads

Excited about something…

Loving the park…. Sleeping like a baby 🙂

Lots of space to throw the Frisbee.

We will return soon.

 

 

Cora’s Birth Story ~ Part Two

This weekend I started to type a detailed post regarding Cora and my time in the hospital. The more I typed the more I realized I was only putting words on the screen. These words couldn’t capture the dept of emotion that characterized those days, trying to write them is a task I cannot undertake.

A friend delivered dinner tonight and saw Cora for the first time out of the NICU. He told us never to forget where she came from, how God healed her and me, and sustained us through that time.

He was right. I want to remember those first days, but not the details. I want to remember all the people who prayed for her, all the nurses who cared for her, all the doctors that made decisions about her care. I am thankful for everyone who touched our lives during our short time at the hospital.

I am thankful that Cora only needed “a little help.” As I sat with her in the NICU I was surrounded by babies much sicker than her. I wondered if anyone was praying for them, I wondered if they would ever go home.

Even though those days were overwhelming and I shed a lot of tears, I was more overwhelmed at the outpouring of kindness and support I received, from the lady who cleaned my hospital room, to a former pastor, to people I have never met.

As I type, Cora lays beside me, looking around the room, her tiny hands grasping for things unseen. She will never remember her traumatic beginnings and for that I am thankful. But I will never let her forget where she came from and who sustained her.

So there will not be a detailed part two, the memories of details have already begun to fade.

Her story is just beginning….